We, as women, spend a lot of time trying to read between the lines with these men. We want to know is he going to ever commit. It drives us crazy trying to figure out if they are or are not into us. They can often send off all kinds of signals and they change from day to day. Men can be confusing. Below are a few ways to help you stop guessing and hopefully be more assured in your relationship.
#1
He teases, and picks on you, bantering so to speak. Men are like boys, they love to play. Its like sports, if he is including you in this play, he likes you for sure.
#2
He asks you out. Even if you play a little hard to get, he keeps trying. Also if he actually picks you up and does not ask that you meet him.
#3
He calls. No 3 day rule. If he is smitten, he will toss the rules aside and call you.
#4
He respects you opinion. If you can disagree with him in an open manner and engaging manner, his head will spin. Men love smart women.
#5
He compliments you. He tells you that you are hot immediately.
#6
He pays and does not think twice about it. Cheap men just want food and sex.
#7
He loves talking to you. If you are on the phone and say "Well I guess I better let you go" and he says, no that's ok, I am not really doing anything", he is into you. Chat him up and show your intelligence and he will be hooked.
#8
He doesn't mind if you put him in his place. Stand up to him in a respectful way and he will admire this. It shows him that you are true to yourself. Men love women that they can't walk all over.
#9
He takes you to special places. He does this because he wants to see how you respond and he wants to impress.
#10
He does things for you, like cut the grass, move your furniture around, things that make your life easier. Also if he buys you things, no matter how small. T shirt at a concert, brings you over your favorite cocktail, even if its beer. Just small things that he knows you like. This is a really positve sign that he is moving towards a commitment.
When a man wants to commit, he will show it. He will start assuming that role and acting like your boyfriend. Once he exhibits this behavior, he will start to naturally move towards you seeking to be exclusive and into a committed relationship.
Men want to be in a committed loving relationship. It just takes the right woman to inspire this in them. You can take a man from casual to committed if you just understand how they really view commitment and how they move towards it. They do not move into commitment like we women do. To understand more, here is a helpful site. http://www.squidoo.com/thetruthaboutmenandcommitment
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