When Someone Has Broken Your Heart - The First Question Is?

When someone has broken your heart it usually means that he broke up with you. Suddenly your life sucks, and you are pretty much freaked out. The best way to fix that is to get your boyfriend back, but here are some questions to ask before you head in that direction.

• First, how was that relationship before the breakup? Is it something worth trying to save, or might you be better off just leaving him go? Was the relationship based on love and respect, commitment and compromise? Do you think you can get that back after the breakup?
• What caused the breakup? Was it something that was done by you or him? Or was it just an argument that ended badly? Does someone need to apologize?
• Do you still love him?

If you have pondered these things, and still think that you still love him and the relationship is worth saving, here's what you do next:

• First, if you decided above that someone had to do some apologizing, and that person is you, it's always a good time to apologize, so let's get it done. Send him a note, hand written, and tell him you're very sorry for whatever it is that you're sorry for. Also tell him that you are okay with the breakup and that it's probably best for both of you right now. Keep it short and not too sweet. A simple close with just your signature and stick it in the mail.
• After you send the note, stop any and all communication with your ex. No more notes, e-mails, twitters, voice mails... nothing. This also means that you cannot respond to his notes, e-mails, twitters, voice mails or anything else. This may drive him/her a little crazy, but that's okay.

Isn't it great to have steps one and two spelled out for you?

If you have a broken heart and are dying to get back together, it's critical that you take action now. Each day that goes by is another chance for him to drift further away and maybe be gone forever. You've got to begin taking steps right now that will get him back. To learn all the steps you need to know, go to http://www.MakeUpFromBreakUp.com. Don't let another day go by without discovering the keys to making up when someone has broken your heart.

By Chuck Behling