If you're going through a breakup, I know how tough it can be. A breakup is probably the most painful phase of one's life. You spend all time thinking of your ex, your past and all those good memories. You think that you're not good for anything and that you're never going to get back together with your ex.
Guess what? Most of the relationships can be salvaged.
Yes, you read that right! Most of the relationships can be mended if you just follow a few simple steps I'm about to outline.
First and foremost, stop all the contacts with your ex. No contact means absolutely disappear out of her life. Don't call her, don't text, don't pay visits, don't maintain any contacts with her. Don't even talk about your breakup to your friends. Don't try to convey your feelings (how much you love her etc) to her.
All this might sound crazy but believe me... this works! I've got back with my girlfriend after one of the most disastrous breakups you'd ever see.
Here's the science behind this method: When you disappear from your partner's life, they will miss you. You were an important part of her life and that sudden void will sting. If she truly loves you, she WILL try to contact you.
At this point of time, you should be feeling better. Your self-esteem is really low just after the breakup. It's because you have been rejected and you feel that you're good for nothing. After a few days, or even weeks, when your ex contacts you, you have the power in your hands.
If you want, you can allow her to gradually get back in your life. Don't rush... take things slowly and let the relationship naturally get back to its peak.
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