The apple of your desire is this gorgeous girl from your perfect love dream. She holds your thoughts hostage while you daydream of her tender touch. A smile so powerful she sends incredible affectionate feelings of warmth and tingle all the way up your spine. Then suddenly, an icy dreadful doom utterly decimates your fantasy, complete with a self doubt, helpless fear that warns you to abandon all hope. You have just experienced "rejection."
Hey, get used to it. Rejection is part of an everyday life experience and it happens frequently. Many times we may not even be aware when we have been rejected. Every salesman knows he will experience a lot of "no thank you" before he receives the wonderful sound of yes, yes, and yes. We get turned down for jobs, raises, promotions, loans, babysitters, and even an occasional ride.
We often blame ourselves for rejection whether it is our fault or not. If you do this, plan on being devastated because you will make the matter worse rather than learn from it. You must remember rejection is not terminal or final. It is hardly ruin and is definitely not something to be taken personally. It comes with the territory, is part of the risk, and a cost of doing business that everyone must pay. Try to see the reason for your renunciation and realize it may have nothing to do with you.
Anything, person, or dream worth your pursuit is going to have a risk of failure. Just keep in mind, rejection is also a precursor to eventual success. Sometimes, no really does mean yes. So get back up and persevere, it is evidence of an interesting life.
Our prior thoughts and fears can actually be the reason for our rejection caused by our own lack of faith. So consider this whole rejection thing as a matter of a difference in opinion. When it comes to a potential relationship with a woman, consider she probably has better judgment as to whether you are a good fit for each other and probably did you both a favor in sparing you from a life of grief.
Does that mean you are a worthless person? Of course not, so you were given the cold shoulder, get back out there and start working the other 4 billion women who are more perfect and looking for someone exactly like you! Believe me you will not have to travel very far to find one. Oh yeah, this time you might just want to try asking her out for star bucks. Natural Health Techniques.
Satori is a Certified Hatha Yoga Instructor, Yoga Alliance Registered Yoga Teacher,and personal life coach. She is trained in Reiki and Shamanic healing and the founder of Seyoga Illustrated Products. Her unique balanced approach to life has allowed her to joyfully share the knowledge of Physical, Mental and Spiritual transformation. She is the author of several books on stress relief yoga, children illustrated yoga, and natural lifestyle change.
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